How gaming can bring meaning to your life.
What can I say? I like gaming. Gaming has brought me hours of fun with friends and family over the years. From simple card games to elaborate and complex computer games, RPG’s and more, games are an enjoyable way to give your brain a workout.
Games can also be a path towards self-improvement, a way of plotting your course through life and rewarding yourself for accomplishments along the way.
Gaming Deathbed Regrets
When people are on their deathbeds, looking back upon their lives, the top five regrets were:
They wish they hadn’t made decisions based on what other people think
They wish they hadn’t worked so hard
They wish they had expressed their feelings
They wish they had stayed in touch with friends
They wish they had let themselves be happy
How Gaming Your Life Can Help
Gaming your life can be a way to address these common regrets so when that inevitable day comes, you can look back and say, “Well, at least I minimized my regrets”.
When you are gaming, you use the creativity of your own mind to solve the problems presented before you. You draw your own conclusions based on your understanding of the rules and the resources you have at hand. You have to improvise and make the best of the situation. This leads to an attitude of “who cares” because the only person you are really competing against is yourself. Gaming gives you the ability to make decisions without regard to what other people think.
When you are gaming, you aren’t working. Go to the beach and play volleyball: gaming. Take a ride through the countryside looking for wildlife: gaming. Spend time playing with your kids: gaming. Fly a kite, trying to keep it aloft: gaming. When we spend time gaming, we build interpersonal relationships, strengthen bonds with others, and build mental and even physical endurance, response, and agility.
The thrill of a well-played, close game can be reward in itself. To struggle against a goal and finally reach it can be extremely gratifying, especially if you failed to achieve the goal easily or had to struggle for it in some way. They payoff is all that much sweeter. Expressing your happiness, frustration, pride, or feelings of accomplishment through gaming is another way to overcome a deathbed regret.
Playing games is a great way to stay in touch with friends and family. Regular get-togethers for gaming night are a fun way to stay in contact and build relationships with friends and family doing something fun. At my house, we have a tradition of “gaming night” usually on a weekend night we will get together for dinner or appetizers and a few hours of playing whatever everybody is interested in playing. If your friends are far away, you can still game with them using online games like Warcraft, Lord of the Rings, Words with Friends, and you can connect with friends and make new friends using playing matching services such as Steam.
Finally, games can help increase your mood simply by playing them. You relax, have casual or competitive play with people whose company you enjoy and you spend time being happy.
So What's the Point of Gaming Your Life?
Considering all of this, I have decided to create a new section on my website detailing some of my life Quests. These will be long-term goals, somewhat like a bucket list, but with loftier, more meaningful goals. I hope you are interested enough to follow along on my journey as I undertake a Quest to Game My Life.
I will be posting some goals, along with achievments along the way. I will figure out what types of real-world "power ups" I will need in order to accomplish the different Quests I set for myself.
My hope is that I will be able to spend less time working so hard for people who don't appreciate what I do for them, spend more time with friends and family, more time expressing myself and my feelings, make decisions based on my own value judgements without concern for what others think, and lead a happy life for whatever time I have left on this planet.